“Finally, it happened to me! I have a real serious relationship! And, in truth, it… drives me crazy.” This is an exceptionally truthful thought that inevitably arises in the head of everyone who is beginning their first romantic relationship. But do not be afraid!
We get so nervous when starting a new relationship, especially if we’ve never been in one before. Social media and friends can make relationships seem like a game of deceit, where one has to outsmart their partner to stay ahead.
But nothing could be further from the truth, especially with healthy relationships. Things like respect and excellent communication make relationships tick, which is why Japanese brides are renowned for having long marriages.
So if you are getting into your first relationship, don’t get swayed by the challenges you have heard many relationships face; just believe in the power of love.
Love is an amazing feeling! However, there are some important things you should know to make the first relationship successful.
First Relationship
Everything is fine, even if you are not madly in love.
Do you have the idea that you can only enter into a relationship if your feelings have reached a degree of burning passion? Get rid of that idea!
Instead, ask yourself if you feel interested and easy together. Are you okay with this person? Do you enjoy spending a lot of time together? Do you want to know this person better?
If you find yourself answering “yes” to these questions, that’s excellent! This is a healthy relationship. You do not have to lose your head to be with someone. Look at things simpler.
If something goes wrong, you will feel it. In the meantime, take delight in the relationship you have.
Do Not Think About How Long it Will Last
Live the present! All good things come to an end some time, and not all romantic relationships last forever. And this is normal.
Do not think about how you will live happily ever after until death do you part. If you do, you will miss the most important part of the relationship, the magic of the moment, the enchantment of the minute, and life itself.
Go to the cinema, eat pizza, blowing dandelions into each other’s face, and enjoy a loved one!
There are so many joyful affairs for every age, especially things to do when you are retired and bored.
Make Your Dates Fun and Unusual Not Stressful
No, you should not come up with an exact plan for a date each time. Just try to relax and swim along the waves of your mood. Listen to yourself and do not be afraid to seem stupid, ridiculous, or funny.
Also, do not hesitate to take the initiative into your hands. It is better to take a walk around the city than wasting two hours watching a movie that neither of you like.