When Your Divorce is Better than Your Wedding Day + $100 Sweepstakes

Surprise. I’m divorced. Yes, that’s correct, I’ve cannon balled into the metaphoric pool of American statistics. And I couldn’t be happier. Why? Because we weren’t happy: that’s why. And since I’m a solid believer of the idea that people control their own happiness, it seemed like the logical thing to do for both of us. I mean, after all, our matrimony was pretty much a fluke. I married the man who knocked me up after four months of dating. It would appear I am not impervious to sperm after all. Don’t get me wrong: I gave our marriage a good college try, but we were all wrong for each other. Dragging it out would have undoubtedly set a terrible example for our son. What would he think of marriage and relationships after seeing two people like passing ships in the night? I didn’t want that for him, and either did my ex. Still, it wasn’t an easy decision.

 

Just Divorced – The Eye Opener I Needed

 

We spent in total five years together. Two of those years were pretty much on the divorce train. I remember the very day I decided enough was enough. I was parked under this old oak tree, a place I would go to every day on my way home from work to avoid actually going home. I would sneak in a cheeky smoke (when I smoked) and work myself up to facing my ex-husband. It’s not that he was mean or anything, I was just so incredibly bored and miserable, I literally got anxiety just thinking of being there.

 

As I sat under that tree, I saw a Jeep Cherokee drive by with the words “Just divorced, I got the Jeep” written in the back window with shoe polish as if it were headed to the local homecoming football game. It made me laugh, then think and that’s when I pulled the trigger on bagging the marriage, cutting my losses and moving on.

 

Now you might be sitting there saying, “oh that’s just so sad”. But listen here: it was the best day (apart from having my son) of my life! I drove home that day, took my ex aside and said “I want a divorce”. He said, “Okay. When do we start?” And that was that.

 

The coming weeks were interesting. We shared the house. He would stay there three nights a week; I would stay with my best friend who is married to his best friend… Sooo he would stay there when I was at the house. (Clearly they were the ones who actually suffered from our divorce).

 

There were a few awkward times, like when I came in to grab some clothes and he was out cold in bed while our son was dismantling my master closet (as in toddler on the loose). But mostly, it went very smoothly.

 

So many people say “oh I’m so sorry to hear you went through a divorce”, like it’s cancer. My divorce was one of the best decisions of my life, for my son’s life and for my ex. We now get along amazingly, always working toward the benefit of our son. I strongly feel that my son has a better idea of what’s right and wrong, and will move onto long healthy relationships, as he gets older.

 

Divorce was the beginning of a whole new chapter in my life. One which led me to become the blogger I am now, giving my son a life of travel and leading by the greatest example of all; that we DO control our own happiness, and that everyone should live a life of intention doing what they love and chasing their dreams. This is why I am so excited to watch HBO’S new series DIVORCE.

After more than a decade of marriage and two children, Frances (Sarah Jessica Parker) has suddenly begun to reassess her life and her strained relationship with her husband Robert (Thomas Haden Church). But she soon discovers that making a clean break and a fresh start is harder than she thought.

 

The story of a very, very long divorce, the show follows Frances and Robert as they grapple with the fallout from their failing marriage, not just for themselves, but also for their children and friends, ranging from awkward public encounters to difficult private therapy sessions.

DIVORCE ON HBO premieres October 9th at 10pm. You can visit the Official WebsiteFacebookTwitterInstagram, and YouTube.

 

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Christa Thompson is the Founder and Senior Editor of The Fairytale Traveler. Christa has been traveling the world since 2003 when she attended a summer abroad study at the University of Cambridge in England. Since then, her wanderlust has been fierce. Her three passions in life are her son, traveling, and being creative. The Fairytale Traveler brand gives Christa the opportunity to do all of these things and to live intentionally every day. "It's never too late to believe in what you love and to pursue your dreams." -Christa Thompson

191 Comments on this post

  1. I have divorced also. Many years ago. I used to say, “If I had killed him when I wanted to, I would done be out of prison.”

    Audrey Stewart / Reply
  2. Think you for your words I am going through a divorce myself it’s nice to hear other people story’s

    Jim / Reply
  3. Old shows – it would be Early Edition. New – I am liking Designated Survivor.

    Ken C / Reply
  4. Looking forward to This Is Us. Parenthood was so good!

    Alana / Reply
  5. Project Runway is my favorite show.

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  7. My favorite show is Dr. Phil

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    Elena / Reply
  9. My favorite TV show is The Blacklist.

    Will G / Reply
  10. My favorite tv show is the Big Bang Theory.

    Kelly D / Reply
  11. I love the Walking Dead shows. Thanks so much.

    Margaret Smith / Reply
  12. Margaret Smith / Reply
  13. My favorite TV show was Psych, but it ended its last season a couple years ago.

    Natalie / Reply
  14. I love The Walking Dead

    Ashley C / Reply
  15. My favorite TV show is Blue Bloods. I love watching Tom Selleck in this show. Such good acting.

    Julie Wood / Reply
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  17. One of my favorite shows is Scorpion!

    Rachel / Reply
  18. My favorite is supernatural

    nickie / Reply
  19. Right now my favorite show is Orange is the New Black. I also like the one episode of Designated Survivor that I saw.

    Debbi Wellenstein / Reply
  20. Supernatural!

    Elizabeth Drake / Reply
  21. Lately I’ve been enjoying Modern Family.

    Sandy Klocinski / Reply
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  23. Game of Thrones is my fave tv show tvollowitz at aol dot com

    Stephanie V. / Reply
  24. My favorite show to watch right now is Shamless and Hung!!

  25. My favorite TV show right now is The Voice.

    Jessica To / Reply
  26. My all-time favorite is The Walking Dead. Thanks for the giveaway! – HilLesha

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  27. I don’t watch any TV except the news.

    Denise S / Reply
  28. My favorite TV show right now is Blacklist.

    Shauntea Crutcher / Reply
  29. My favorite show is The Walking Dead.
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    Kiara / Reply
  30. I like NCIS
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  32. My favorite TV show is Curb Your Enthusiasm

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    Steve Weber / Reply
  33. My favorite television show is Shameless.

    heather / Reply
  34. My favorite tv show is the young and restless

    Bev Henry / Reply
  35. I loved House of Cards, but on a weekly basis Chopped!

    OFG / Reply
  36. My favorite of all time would be Arrested Development or The Office. 🙂

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    Erika / Reply
  37. I watch the ID channel. a lot. How appropriate. One of the best is Betrayal. Even more fitting.

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  40. My favorite TV show is Game of Thrones!

    Madeline / Reply
  41. My favorite TV show is Scorpion.

    Rachel / Reply
  42. I have a lot of favorites, I think if I had to pick one it would be Game Of thrones

    Jennifer B / Reply
  43. My favorite show is Nashville. They took it off of ABC but I think it may be resurrected on another channel. Looking forward to the new show.

    shar y / Reply
  44. I love The Affair

    paige chandler / Reply
  45. Elementary is my favorite TV show.
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    Jessie C. / Reply
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  47. I have so many, but Law and Order is one of them.

    Christina Sauve Oliver / Reply
  48. American Horror Story! . Thanks for the chance to win this!

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  50. My favorite TV show right now is The Mindy Project. Makes me laugh out loud 🙂

    Tara O. / Reply
  51. We loved White Collar

    katherine / Reply
  52. Grey’s Anatomy

    Julie Detwiler / Reply
  53. My favorite TV show is the Amazing Race.

    Denise L / Reply
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  57. i like Mr Robot

    jen gersch / Reply
  58. I don’t know if I have a true favorite but I do love Law and Order SVU, been watching since the very beginning.

    Elle / Reply
  59. My favorite was Sex and the City…don’t really have one now so I really look forward to watching Divorce. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your story.

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  61. Game of Thrones!

    mita / Reply
  62. I enjoy so many! I like crime shows like Criminal Minds and Forensic Files.

    Cynthia C / Reply
  63. Cynthia C / Reply
  64. My favorite TV show is the Big Bang Theory.

    Susan Smith / Reply
  65. Fixer Upper on HGTV.

    Robin / Reply
  66. heather / Reply
  67. Love Big Bang theort

    Alicia / Reply
  68. My favorite TV show is Sons of Anarchy. Yes, I know it’s not on TV anymore. But, I own the entire series and I’m on my 3rd time of watching it! Just love it. 😀 Thanks so much for the chance to win!

    Ashley C / Reply
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  71. I like the Good Wife

    latanya t / Reply
  72. my favorite show right now is chicago fire

    raggammuffin / Reply
  73. Right now, I like Dancing with the Stars.

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  74. The 100 is my favorite show.

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  75. I like The Blacklist

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  78. Right now I am loving Westworld!!

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  79. That’s a a tough one. Maybe Breaking Bad.

    Julie / Reply
  80. My favorite show is Blackish. My tweet is at https://twitter.com/xoxoKloves/status/787838252673892352

    Kelsey / Reply
  81. I have two Outlander and The Walking Dead!

    Sue Barney / Reply
  82. I saw the pilot for Divorce on HBOgo the other day and really liked it! Right now I am enjoying The Americans on FX.

    Meegan / Reply
  83. chicago med is my current favorite

    sandra / Reply
  84. So many I love! One of my favorites is Orange Is The New Black.

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  86. It is tough to say but I really like Game of Thrones.

    Laura Bowe / Reply
  87. My favorite show right now is Inkmaster.

    Susan Chester / Reply
  88. I like game of throne.

    Tina M / Reply
  89. My favorite TV show of all time is probably Northern Exposure. Loved the characters, and that it was funny, sad, and touching, all at the same time.

    Anne / Reply
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  91. My fav TV show of all times is Seinfeld but right now I guess my fav would be Fixer Upper. I love home shows. Also, I tweeted your giveaway! https://twitter.com/leblancpatti/status/788460202123075584

    Patti / Reply
  92. Arrested Development

    GT / Reply
  93. My favorite. TV show is Supernatural

    mary almand / Reply
  94. I still watch Jeopardy five nights a week and I like Antiques Roadshow and the Great British Baking Show.

    Natalie J Vandenberghe / Reply
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  96. My favorite tv show is The Big Bang Theory
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  97. The show looks like it will be really, really good!

    Lisa Edwards / Reply
  98. MASH is my all-time favorite.

    Erica B. / Reply
  99. Law & Order SVU is my favorite.

    Ellie Wright / Reply
  100. My favorite TV show – Grey’s Anatomy.
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  102. I just started watching The Good Wife and really am enjoying it.

    busyworkingmama / Reply
  103. My favorite TV show is Desperate Housewives!!

    Ashley B / Reply
  104. Sherlock!

    Sara / Reply
  105. My favorite TV show is Pushing Daisies.

    Zoey / Reply
  106. My favorite TV show is probably either “House of Cards” or “How to Get Away with Murder.”

    angie / Reply
  107. my favorite tv show is this is us. i look forward to it every week.

    susan smoaks / Reply
  108. supernatural is my current fav

    Daniel M / Reply
  109. My favorite tv show is NCIS. I have been watching it for years! my4boysand1@gmail.com

    StephaniePhelps / Reply
  110. Hard to believe even for me but my friends got me hooked on The Walking Dead!

    Linda / Reply
  111. My favorite right now is Modern Family.

    Lisa Voyce / Reply
  112. This is Us!

    Kerry / Reply
  113. My favorite tv show is forensic files

    Kathy Pease / Reply
  114. “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend”!

    Ed / Reply
  115. I love watching supernatural, forensic files, the walking dead

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  116. My favorite show right now is Supergirl. I love it!
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    Tarissa / Reply
  117. I love all the real housewives,terrible I know!

    Tabitha / Reply
  118. Divorce is one of my new favorites along with This Is Us.

    Kristen / Reply
  119. I don’t watch TV. Don’t even own a TV and don’t watch on the computer. Have a full life without it.
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  120. The only show I watch is Big Bang Theory

    Bruce / Reply
  121. I don’t get to watch much TV, but I look forward to 48 Hours on Saturday nghts.

    Annette / Reply
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  123. A favorite TV show is True Nightmares.

    Michelle Castagne / Reply
  124. my fav is walking dead

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  125. My fav show is Hells Kitchen.

    Claudia Davis / Reply
  126. Empire

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  127. Supernatural and my favorite new show is This is Us.

    Francine Anchondo / Reply
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  129. I like the walking dead.

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  131. My favorite TV shows are DWTS, The Blacklist and Project Runway.

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  132. I HAVE A FEW FAVORITES, I LIKE NCIS, THE VOICE AND THE NEW SHOW, THIS IS US 🙂

    Shayna / Reply
  133. American housewife

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  136. It is a tie between Game Of Thrones and Walking Dead.

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  137. My favorite tv show is Real Stories of the ER.

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  139. How To Get Away With Murder is my favorite show at the moment.

    Shannon / Reply
  140. I have so many, I enjoy BBC shows Sherlock and Doctor Who. I am a fan of the walking dead, game of thrones, blacklist, blindspot, ncis shows, several syfy shows, lucifier

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  142. My favorite is Znation

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  143. My favorite TV show is I Dream of Jeannie by Sidney Sheldon, with Barbara Eden.

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  145. My favorite shows are NCIS and Criminal Minds.

    Betty C / Reply
  146. Law & Order SVU is my favorite show right now!

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  148. One of my fav shows is Law and Order

    Richard Hicks / Reply
  149. I have a couple of favorite shows, one older one is Roswell and a present one is Marvel’s Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.

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